Barley and Hops: You should go here for dinner in Occidental. Great local beers, casual atmosphere and cuisine.
Hopmonk Tavern Sebastopol: Here is the live music lineup.
Willowood Market Cafe in Graton: Breakfast or lunch...total winner!
Howards Station Cafe in Occidental: My hands down favorite breakfast spot!
Union Hotel Occidental: Great family style restaurant. The bar has a very local vibe.
Grove of Old Trees: 15 minutes from the house!
Let's see...beer...food...hiking...music. That should get you started!